
Stop guessing. Start reading what is actually there.
Attraction, politeness and disinterest look similar to an untrained eye, and misreading them costs you either opportunities or dignity. This guide breaks down the observable signals — eye contact patterns, proximity, conversational investment, reciprocity, and the difference between warmth and interest — and gives you calibrated ways to test them without being creepy or needy. It also covers the honest part: what to do when the signal is no.