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Standards & Boundaries

Know what you accept. Say it out loud. Hold it.

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About this guide

Men without standards get treated accordingly, and men with unspoken standards get resentful. This guide helps you define what you actually want and will not accept, communicate it early and without hostility, and hold it when it costs you something. Includes scripts for the awkward conversations and a plan for when a boundary is crossed.

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Table of contents

  1. 01Defining what you actually want
  2. 02Standards versus rigidity
  3. 03Saying it early and without hostility
  4. 04Holding a boundary that costs you
  5. 05When a boundary is crossed
  6. 06Standards inside a relationship

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